Five Proven Way to Make Yourself More Likable and Gain Life Long Friends

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Statistics show that relationships are essential to a healthy life. However, many of us feel lonely and isolated because we are afraid to take that first step in forming friendships and intimate bonds with people. Don’t be. They are waiting for you to make the first move.

1. Call/text people constantly. It let’s them know you value their friendship. Text at unexpected times, like 2am just to ask, “Hey, what are you up to?” They will enjoy your spontaneous personality.
2. Three days after meeting someone, give them an over the top gift that involves an obligation, like tickets to a concert. The time you spend together will solidify your relationship. In a couple of months you could up the ante with tickets for a cruise.
3. Reveal your inner most secrets and desires. Get in to the really personal stuff. Say something like, “You know, I always get aroused when I’m in a public bathroom.” Being willing to tell these kinds of intimate details establishes trust.
4. Ask really personal questions. “So, what kind of porn are you into?” This is kind of a quid pro quo for Number 3. ‘I showed you mine so you show me yours’ kind of thing. It also goes with the theme of being aroused in a public bathroom.
5. Be passionate about the friendship. If they do not respond to your texts right away let them know it bothers you. Text, “DO NOT IGNORE ME! I AM A HUMAN BEING! YOU DO NOT F*CKING IGNORE ME! YOU ARE NOT BETTER THAN ME! I WILL BURN YOU TO THE F*CKING GROUND!!!!!!!” These types of emotional texts are best sent at 3am after drinking heavily.

BONUS TIP: Ask to borrow a large sum of money.